Anonymously, E.

So many people, both men and women, have been reaching out to me to express how much they loved hearing my stories. I honestly didn't even know so many of us have endured such similar experiences but this one definitely stuck out to me. After hearing her story I knew this would be one for the books. It started a little like this...

"Dear Daph,

I've been thinking about this for quite some time now and if anyone can do it, it's you. So here goes nothing. This is my story, and I'd like you to share it.

Anonymously,

Me. "

Make this make sense! He wasn't my type, he wasn't my height, and yet now he's my everything. My partner. My confidant. My right hand. A man that I couldn't even stand. So again, MAKE THIS MAKE SENSE! Back in mid 2020 I meant a boy who seemed to lack the ability to leave me TF alone. After meeting him once at a party, I was sure I'd never see him again but little did I know he was friends with one of my siblings. Soon I began to see him everywhere. After weeks and weeks of pursuit, I finally decided to give him a chance. He was cool and after all, who am I to turn down a free meal? Later that week we went out to dinner, went back to my place, and went our separate ways. Man was that back seat cramped. This was the night I officially ended my phase of abstinence.

Who was he? What was he about? Overtime this longing to know him more began to knock on the door of my heart. It was as if each drink brought us closer together. It was all happening so fast and soon dinner turned into breakfast and BOOM! I was even seeing him for lunch. He didn't have a girlfriend and it may be time for me to start taking him seriously, or so I thought. We talked for hours, taking breaks only to sleep and shower. He was such a VIBE and your girl was really feeling him until one day I got a random DM from a girl I had never met before. Ain't that some shit?

She gave me a quick description explaining how she found her way into my DM's and told me that it would mean a lot to her if I could just call and explain to "her sister" what was going on between me and HER BOYFRIEND. Wait, What? Boyfriend? The woman in me decided to let her know that I would actually be willing to follow up with this "sister" despite my best friend advising me not to. Step by step I explained to her how each interaction went leaving out one little detail. We had sex. Good sex. We had sex so much I had to think twice about cussing him out over this. Here I am thinking i made it through the conversation and right before I got the chance to hang up the phone she goes "there's just one more thing I really need to know. Have you guys been having sex?"

I was shook. By the tone in her voice I could tell she wouldn't be able to handle the truth so I responded with a "No." and quickly ended the conversation. Till this day I'll never know if she ever found out the truth, yet here I am building a life with that same dude. What's next you might ask? Honestly, even I don't know.

Love,

The girl who used Daph as a Vessel.